We have to put ourselves in another's place; we have to be willing to walk a mile in their shoes. We can start doing this by asking questions.
It's a type of emotional abuse you may not be familiar with, but when it happens, it can destroy a person. It's called gaslighting.
If you want to see a change in your relationship, it often starts with you. Dr. Pickering encourages us to follow Jesus’ advice and take ownership of our part in the problem.